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Identifying stressors and admitting that children are affected by stressful events like change is a shift. Change, whether positive or negative has been rated high as a stressor for children. A schedule change from summer to school is enough to create feeling of stress and anxiety for some children. Couple that with early mornings wake ups, homework demands, and after school activities and you have a recipe for stress. Intensify that by throwing your own worries into the mix and you have created a pot that is about to boil over. Let's face it, parents worry about juggling the new schedule, fitting their work in and what to do if their children get sick. After school activities might mean an increase in bills and you are also concerned about your child sitting next to the school bully. Stress in contagious. Children pick up on their parents stress. What coping strategies can your family use to stress-less,roger vivier shoes? 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Use this time to connect with your child. Put your work aside and focus on your child. Take a walk. Step on leaves or crunch acorns as you go. Tell your child about the day you followed a squirrel with your brother's camera trying to get a funny photo. These moments are relationship building and provide much needed stress relief for adults and children. Stay organized: Although challenging to most families, I have found that even the simplest organization solutions can save lots of anxiety and chaos. Designate a shoe area; knowing where to find your child's shoes in the morning can eliminate crying and minutes wasted looking for them. Be creative; one of our best ideas was the day we tied a hair brush to the railing on the steps. That was 2 years ago and we have never again spent a morning looking for a hair brush. See what ideas your child has. Rest and nutrition: A well rested child is less irritable,roger vivier sale, cranky and better able to respond to stressful situations in a balanced, calm manner. Nutrition is also important. Sugar, caffeine and food coloring can increase the jitters and should be limited. Good balanced breakfast with protein can help your child start the day calm. Relaxation techniques: It is never too early to introduce your child to relaxation techniques. It is a stress filled world and we need to show our children how to counteract stress. Let them see you taking a few minutes to sit still and concentrate on your breathing. Tell them what you are doing. Children copy what they see and don't be surprised if even your youngest child climbs up on your lap to experience belly breathing. Lori is a Certified Children's Meditation Facilitator,roger vivier sale, teacher, student of meditation and mother of three. Lori's stories, techniques and products are currently assisting child life specialists, parents, teachers, school counselors, psychologists and yoga instructors across the United States and abroad. Lori Lite has interviewed and written articles for several media outlets around the country to include interviews with "ABC Radio" "Prevention Magazine" "CBS News",giuseppe zanotti heels, "USA Today Magazine" "Stress Free Living" Magazine and "Evolve" Magazine. 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